30 May 2016

SOS- Memorial Day 2016

Mine eyes have seen the glory of the coming of the Lord...
Today is Memorial Day, the annual national observance for those service men and women who lost their lives in war (as opposed to Veteran's Day in November, which recognizes all who served). You'll hear the words of The Battle Hymn of the Republic played all over the US today. This day is often observed with parades, patriotic concerts, and remembrance ceremonies at military memorials and cemetaries.
It is vital and important to remember the lives lost at war in Vietnam, Korea, WW I & II, Iraq and Afghanistan, etc. But today I am thinking about those veterans whose lives were lost in their own home country by suicide. It is estimated that 22 veterans take their own lives every day, and one on active duty kills him/herself every day. Suicide rates among veterans are 50% higher than those of the general population. The VA has published its own statitistics and strategies for addressing this epidemic.

What do we do about this crisis? Several of my Facebook friends have been participating in the #22pushups challenge to raise awareness of suicide and PTSD among veterans. Share the word about this crisis hotline: 800-273-8255. Encourage veterans to change the sterotypical mindset that requesting help is a sign of weakness. I'll participate in my own way by wearing my flagpin today as many others will; but I will wear mine upside down, like this:

The upside down flag is a universal call for distress, not protest. I'll wear it not only for the men and women who have committed suicide, but also for their grieving families. I would encourage others to wear their flagpins upside down today as well. It may well inspire conversations where we could share our concerns for veterans facing their own personal crises. It's also a call for the health services we offer to veterans, physical and mental, to be more effective and easily accessible. The call to serve one's country must be met by the rest of us with a commitment to care for each one who serves so that they may live their lives with the dignity and respect they deserve. I offer the following prayer litany today, which does not formally mention suicide, but there is certainly room for it in the prayer of remembrance for the lives lost in war.
A Litany from The Book of Worship for United States Forces (1974)
(One-time permission to print and use this litany in congregational worship has been granted by The Armed Forces Chaplains' Board, Washington, D.C.)
Leader: Let us give thanks to God for the land of our birth with all its chartered liberties. For all the wonder of our country's story:
PEOPLE: WE GIVE YOU THANKS, O GOD.
Leader: For leaders in nation and state, and for those who in days past and in these present times have labored for the commonwealth:
PEOPLE: WE GIVE YOU THANKS, O GOD.
Leader: For those who in all times and places have been true and brave, and in the worlds common ways have lived upright lives and ministered to their fellows:
PEOPLE: WE GIVE YOU THANKS, O GOD.
Leader: For those who served their country in its hour of need, and especially for those who gave even their lives in that service:
PEOPLE: WE GIVE YOU THANKS, O GOD.
Leader: O almighty God and most merciful Father, as we remember these your servants, remembering with gratitude their courage and strength, we hold before you those who mourn them. Look upon your bereaved servants with your mercy. As this day brings them memories of those they have lost awhile, may it also bring your consolation and the assurance that their loved ones are alive now and forever in your living presence.

18 May 2016

Gladys Knight and the United Methodist Church

Many years ago I was driving south on I-45, somewhere close to Huntsville. I was on my way to Bay City to visit family. News had just come down that I would be leaving one appointment, which had been a very difficult assignment, to go to a new church. As I was driving, Gladys Knight and the Pips began to sing on the radio:

It's sad to think
We're not going to make it
And it's gotten to the point
Where we just can't take it
For some ungodly reason
Just won't let it die
I guess neither one of us
Wants to be the first to say goodbye

And I was singing along with a smile on my face and tears of joy running down my cheeks. There was going to be a change. A broken relationship was ending, and a new one was beginning.


I remember that song this morning as I consider the possibility of my home denomination facing a similar decision. The General Conference of the United Methodist Church, the only body with authority to speak on behalf of United Methodists everywhere, began meeting in Portland, OR last week. Everyone knew going in that the question of human sexuality, which has plagued mainline denominations for the past couple of decades, would, once again, threaten to split the church. I, for one, believed the General Conference was too dysfunctional even to decide to split, which may still be the case. Late yesterday the GC formally asked the bishops of the UMC, who do not have authority to decide for the UMC, to take the lead in offering a solution or at least a path forward. We'll see if anything is presented today, or what, if any, actions are taken by the GC before the meeting ends Friday.

For years now, folk on both sides of the issues of human sexuality have sought separation from each other. Progressives believe LGBTQ persons should have full inclusion within the church, including marriage and ordination. Conservatives believe the stance of the Book of Discipline should be enforced when bishops or pastors preside at same-sex marriages or "come out of the closet" themselves. Presbyterians and Episcopalians have fought similar battles in recent years, and both came to the same conclusion: it was time for a divorce. Now, it seems, the United Methodist Church may be headed down the same path.

And I am grieving.

I have my own personal views on the issues of human sexuality, which I have articulated on this blog and in sermons over the years. What I am struggling with today is leaving voices who disagree with mine. I am not overly excited about being part of a denomination where everyone agrees. Opportunities to learn from folk from a differing perspective will be lost.

Throughout its history, Methodism has divided itself over issues of doctrine, theology, or just plain ol' human sin, like racism. Ironically just a couple of days ago the General Conference recognized the 200th anniversary of the birth of the AME church, formed by Richard Allen. Allen started a new church for African Americans when it became clear that racism was preventing a path forward. In 1844, the Methodist Episcopal denomination split over the issue of slavery, becoming the Methodist Episcopal Church of the North/South. This is why SMU, established in 1911, is called Southern Methodist University. Those two divided Methodist groups unified in 1939 to become the Methodist Church, but at the same time the Central Jurisdiction was formed, forcing all African Americans in the Methodist Church into their own segregated denomination. The Central Jurisdiction was abolished in 1968, when the Methodists merged with the Evangelical United Brethren, forming the United Methodist denomination of today.


The United Methodist Church was born in 1968. I was born in 1971. This is the only church I have ever known. This month is the 15th anniversary of my ordination as a clergy in the United Methodist Church. And nobody seems to know what will happen from here. I may be grieving a split that may not even happen, but it sure seems like that is where we are heading, at least today. I had this thought this morning, and it may explain my grief: I have never experienced divorce. My grandparents have been married seventy-one years. My parents have been married forty-six years. Christy and I will celebrate our 20th anniversary in 2017.

I fully understand the hurt that so many are feeling. Our denomination's stances on human sexuality are at odds with the general public's opinion. Even among conservatives, opinions about same-sex marriage have changed at an unprecedented pace. We are at this untenable position where same-sex marriage is the law of the land, but United Methodist pastors are forbidden to preside at a wedding. The Book of Discipline both affirms gay and lesbians as "persons of sacred worth" and homosexuality as "incompatible with Christian teaching." Progressives believe our stances on human sexuality violate one of our core principles: do no harm; conservatives believe those on the other side of the issue challenge the authority of scripture. So many on both sides have decided the only way forward is divorce on the basis of irreconcilable differences.

Personally I hope there is still a unified path forward, and I think a solution may be found, once again, by looking into our Methodist history. This year is the 60th anniversary of the ordination of women in the Methodist Church. In 1956 there were certainly folk on both sides of this issue: not ordaining women denies that God is able to call both men and women to the clergy; ordaining women violates scriptures that offer very specific roles for women in the church. But somehow the decision was made at the 1956 General Conference to ordain women and continue as a denomination. Who were those leaders? What can we learn from them today?

Here is an undeniable truth: God loves the Church, not a particular denomination. The Methodists were formed in the eighteenth century as an evangelical movement for reform. "Evangelical" not in the sense of conservative, as it is often understood today, but in the sense of literally taking the gospel to folk outside of the church. Methodism was meant to renew the witness of the church, not become one, and maybe that is why we have struggled with so many divisions over the past 300 years. Here's the thing: both sides of the Presbyterians and Episcopalians, divided over issues of human sexuality, are still declining. My prayer is that even if the denomination has to end we'll rediscover our primary purpose and core mission, to spread the gospel to more people, most of whom have no idea what the United Methodist Church is or was or may be. Take us out, Gladys:


09 May 2016

A Gospel of a Different Color


I've been teaching the Gospel of John in various formats and churches for two decades. Last year I had the inspiration to compile all of those lessons into a book. I would call it A Gospel of a Different Color, a reference to my 94-year old grandfather, who would say, "Well that's a horse of a different color!" whenever someone would make a surprising play during a game of cards. John became a gospel of a different color for me when I first noticed how different it was from the other gospels. The book is dedicated to my grandfather, Don Guffey.



Over the past eighteen months or so I wrote out my manuscript, attended a Christian writer's workshop at Princeton Theological Seminary, struggled with writer's block, and, worse, writer's insecurity (who's going to read it???). But I was able to overcome those doubts, and the dream of a book is now a reality!

Who would enjoy reading the book? Anyone with a curiosity about the Bible and the personality of Jesus. Folk who are new to the faith will learn about Jesus' mission to reach every person with his love and grace. Individuals who have more biblical experience will discover more depth, specific to this particular gospel.

  • What makes John different? 
  • What's in John but not the other gospels?
  • What's in the other gospels but not in John?
  • And why does all of this matter?

Groups (Sunday school classes, Bible study discussions), can spend 4-6 weeks learning together. Leaders, whether they are lay teachers or preachers preparing a sermon series on John, will find engaging helps throughout the book. It is formatted in a unique way to facilitate reflection: each chapter has several "For the Teacher and Preacher" sections, which offer thought-provoking questions about the material just discussed. And each chapter ends with a sermon I preached in my current appointment which builds the discussion even further.

You can buy the hard/soft cover book now on AmazonBarnes and Noble, or have your local Christian bookstore order it. The e-book version is now available on Amazon.


Or: we'll have a book signing event at Custer Road UMC Sunday May 29, following each worship service (10:05-10:25; 11:35-whenever).You'll get a discount!




If you can't make that date we'll have more copies available June 5, my last Sunday at Custer Road. Or order on your own and bring it by anytime between now and June 5. Thanks for everyone who supported me through this process. It's been fun. I hope the book is a blessing to you!